One things I can't stand is betrayal. I am not speaking of the betrayal of trust, for that's extremely important, but the betrayal of speaking with the enemy when you know that person is the enemy. If you are a true friend to me or my partner and someone has done you wrong, you can bet I will not be associating with that person in the same manner as I did before. Should the wrong doer ask me a question, not pertaining to the betrayed, I will answer, I will help, I will do whatever, but I will not share any information with that wrong doer. I will tell that wrong doer what my friend/partner is up to. That wrong doer will know nothing, because my loyalty sides with my friend and or partner. If you re aware that you significant other is currently in a dismantle relationship with another, do not fraternize with the enemy. By doing this, you are showing extreme disloyalty to your partner. You are not to be trusted!
I am faced with someone who feels its OK to mingle with the enemy because this person is unaware of the laws of not biting the hand that feeds you. If this said person would like to speak to the enemy that's fine. But when you begin telling the enemy things that is none of her business and you know..KNOW the one the enemy has betrayed would not appreciate that, then you, sir, have moved from the top of my good list to the bottom of my shit list!
I enjoyed reading this post, as I read it memories flooded my mind of situations where something like this took place in my own life. I think the most betraying experience was having a loved one repeat to me something nasty someone who was an enemy said about me. I don't purposely make enemies but have had a few. Sometimes they were jealous other times I couldn't pin point their reason for targeting me.
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